When Things Go Wrong

I found this wreckage (in the photo above) one early morning while on a work project. Can you imagine waking up to seeing your car totaled and crushed between 2 other cars?
 
Accidents happen. If you live life long enough you will encounter challenges, crisis, and unfortunately even tragedy. However, it is how we respond to these events that set the course of our lives.
 
Be encouraged. God is not taken by surprise. That’s why the first course of action is to pray. Although we shouldn’t approach God is if He were a genie with 3 wishes, He is a Creator who seeks to be a Father to His creation.
 
There’s a passage in Scripture that gives us a glimpse of the heart of God, “Give all your worries and cares to God, for he cares about you.” 1 Peter 5:7
 
God cares. They Creator of this universe and all that is seen and unseen cares about you and me as individuals. Are you willing to trust Him with the things you are concerned with? Are you willing for Him to be in charge of the direction of your life?
 
Pastor and writer Charles Swindoll said,
 
“Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you react to it.”
 
Are you willing to let God help you with the 90%?

A Conversation for Hearts

A poem for all hearts this Valentine’s Day…

A word to the young,

Yours can be fooled

Usually when you’re foolish

Wreckless and never ruled.

A word to those who are gray,

Before you lay to rest

Stop pining for yesterdays

And make today your best.

A word for the lonely,

Don’t be offended by my tone

Sharing your journey is a choice

So is staying alone.

A word to the lost,

Open your eyes

And commit to find your way

Instead of living on lies.

A word to those who are filled,

Help us sift the truth from the tales

Warn us about chasing after empty dreams

And remind us that love never fails.

It’s time to make a comeback!

Fishing can be a joy. It can also be very frustrating. Part of fishing is failing to catch a fish. Does it keep us from fishing? For many people, including me, yes, I admit.

Failure is a part of life. Some failures hurt more than others. Losing a pick up basketball game may not hurt as much as losing a business venture. Losing a friend’s phone number may not hurt as much as losing a friendship. Divorce, termination of employment, failed investments are just a few of many events that we may experience. They can be devastating, and the effects can last a lifetime.

If you’re like me you’ve been told since you were a small child these words, “Don’t give up. That’s actually Bible talk.  Proverbs 24:16 says, “The godly may trip seven times, but they will get up again..”

First, call it like it is. If it’s a failure, then that’s what it is. Humility is the antidote for denial. Denial may be an automatic first response. Take the time to thoughtfully own it. Own your mistakes and misjudgments. Wouldn’t you agree that most failures are the result of self-inflicted wounds? If you’re like me, most of my mistakes aren’t really mistakes. They are results of poor judgement and decisions against wisdom. If so, then “man up.” Own it.

Second, draw out the lessons to keep yourself from repeating the errors. Most likely, your issue is a heart issue not a thinking issue. As a person gets skilled in fishing, he switches to a different bait when he realizes the current bait isn’t working. It’s probably time to switch your method of doing things.

Next, make a plan to make a comeback. Be determined to comeback. Then plan it out. Get counsel from friends and mentors who can tell it to you straight. It may not be the exact same endeavor as the one that failed. It may not be the same relationship that you once valued. Count it a comeback.

If you don’t go fishing you won’t catch a fish. Be willing to fail before you succeed. Failure is part of the process. Those you fish know this very well.

To get some divine inspiration read about how Jesus restored Peter even though Peter denied even knowing Jesus when Peter was confronted about his relationship with Jesus. Peter had previously claimed that he would lay his life down for Jesus. He willfully failed Jesus. Jesus already planned to give Peter a second chance. Don’t you love second chances? You can read this account in the John 21 here https://www.bible.com/bible/116/JHN.21.nlt

Your feedback is important. What is your call to action? What are you going to do that’s different. It’s time to make a comeback.

Don’t DIY your life. DIWG

Don’t DIY Your Life. DIWG. Do it with God.

As I watched this elderly man walking the streets of L.A., I remembered a Jewish Proverb:

A man’s heart plans his way, But the Lord directs his steps. ~Proverbs 16:9 NKJV

We were never meant to do this journey alone. DIY home projects or car repairs are great. I just fixed my toilet this morning by looking on YouTube. It took me 2 minutes! Don’t DIY your life.

God has blessed us with a free will and a creative mind to take amazing adventures and accomplish great deeds, but He had always intended for us to be in a relationship with Him. In that relationship with Him, we can see the world with a wider lens. We can see the bigger picture. We can find His purpose for us.

I can start with a simple prayer today, “God, show me the way I should go today. I want to know you and your purpose for me.” It’s possible that seemingly nothing earth-shattering will change for you immediately afterwards. However, it’s more about yielding to the One who supplies the very air you breathe.

This is what Jesus taught his followers about the daily things we worry about.

“And don’t be concerned about what to eat and what to drink. Don’t worry about such things. These things dominate the thoughts of unbelievers all over the world, but your Father already knows your needs. Seek the Kingdom of God above all else, and he will give you everything you need.’

Read more in context here https://www.bible.com/bible/116/LUK.12.22-31

Don’t DIY your life. DIWG. That is, Do It With God.

“And the very hairs on your head are all numbered”

“And the very hairs on your head are all numbered.”

Just a thought form a portion of Scripture found in Matthew 10:30.

If the Creator of this universe knows you to the level of detail that He knows the exact number of hairs that you have on your head, do you think that it’s possible that God cares for you?