Bringing value to a child’s life

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Thanks to KidMin360 for giving me the privilege of sharing my thoughts on children’s ministry. Here’s a copy of my last guest blog post. If you work with children, do you ask yourself questions like,

  • “When the children leave my church or my classroom or my program, are they glad that they went?”
  • “Do I help each child view his true value as an individual? As a person created by God Himself?”
  • “When I child is with me, where does he see himself on the scale of importance? Is he a nuisance? Is he even noticed? Is he important and valued?”

My first career, fresh out of college, was as an elementary school teacher. I worked in the public school system as a teacher for over 10 years in inner-city schools. One of my most memorable school years was bookmarked by one 9-year old girl. Yuri was brought into my classroom in the last quarter the of the school year. Actually, she was physically carried into my 4th Grade classroom by the administrator. This girl balled up into a fetal position for the entire day. For at least a week, she spent her days with her head face down on the desk buried inside her folded arms. She responded my attempts to talk to her with complete silence. I was frustrated but was not going to give up. I had just heard a series at church about valuing people.

If I was going to make a connection with Yuri, I knew I had to do something different. After the first bell, I yelled Yuri’s name with all the enthusiasm I could muster, as if I were the announcer of a championship boxing match, as all the students lined up in front of their classroom for school. I forgot to inform the rest of my class of my strategy, so they were enjoyably caught off-guard by my antics. After I ceremoniously announced Yuri’s name at the start of every school day consistently for two weeks, Yuri began to speak to me through a translator-classmate. She made eye contact, but instead of talking to me, she whispered in her friend’s ear what she wanted me to know. I played along with this to keep the communication open. Yuri didn’t do any of the classwork but would sneak a smile every once in a while to let me know that she was listening.

The extent of this communication lasted for another couple of weeks. Though this was not uncommon for this part of the city, Yuri’s parents were suspiciously unavailable for any school meetings, as our community worker worked tirelessly to get Yuri the help that she needed. Obviously, something was wrong.

One afternoon, about a month after we first met, Yuri approached me as I graded papers on my desk after school. Most of the students had left for the playground except for a couple of helpers cleaning up in the hallway. Without any prompting from me, Yuri began talking to me about herself and what she thought of school for the next 15 minutes. I think I may have squeezed in maybe a few words in this conversation. However, I was quiet for most of our discussion because I had been in shock listening to my student gab with me as if we were best friends. At the end of our conversation, Yuri gave me a hug and said that this was her last day of school, and I was the best teacher she ever had.

At the end of the day, one of our administrators called me in her office to passionately explain what had happened. Social Services had been tracking Yuri’s parents for possible neglect and child abuse. To elude Social Services, Yuri’s parents withdrew her from the school and left the area. I never saw Yuri again, but the memory of her reminds me to care about what matters most.

Our windows of opportunity to reach children are many times closed a lot sooner than we expect. How do we get our children to see their value in Christ? I can’t be just a lesson children learn on a Sunday. We have to value them.

Value children in the program.

There should always be a segment to welcome visitors. Years ago, I went to church in Hawaii. Hospitality is a big part people’s culture. When the pastor welcomed the visitors, the congregation exploded in a dance as the band played. A volunteer put a lei around my neck within 5 seconds, and I was surrounded by huggers from every corner. I felt like a million bucks, and I’m an adult! What if we treated every young visitor that way? Are you highlighting children in any other ways? Birthdays? Kid of the week? What are your ideas? Are you putting the ideas in action?

Value children on purpose.

It must deliberate. What if it comes off as phony? It won’t be when your interactions with children are genuine. You have to provide training and follow up for your volunteers. Do you think that the employees at Disneyland just automatically know how to positively interact with families just by being employed by Disney? They were trained. Are you training your volunteers to value children?

Value children with passion.

Yes, be over the top in many cases if not all. Enthusiasm is caught not taught. You can provide all the “customer service” type training you want, but it will fall short if you are not leading the way. As the children’s ministry pastor, director, assistant, or volunteer you must exemplify passion to your team. You set the tone.

Valuing children must be embedded in the program. It must be on purpose. It must be passionate. When you do those things, it become organic. In other words, valuing children becomes part of your ministry’s DNA. When children feel valued, they will view themselves as valuable. What would happen to your children’s ministry if the children who participated in it knew their true value in Christ? Are you ready to expand the dynamics of the children’s ministry? Many times, we may not see the fruit of our efforts when we reach out to children. Yuri is my reminder that our efforts are never in vain, and that Christ will use us to reach even the toughest hearts.

Late night story on Backspaces “Journey With Me”

My latest on Backspaces. @thephotomomma on Backspaces started a “With Me” theme, so I joined in the fun. My entry is titled, “Journey With Me.”

Recommendation for Violen


Thanks to Kasia Piekut from for promoting my book titled Violen, which is sold on Blurb as an eBook and printed copy. This children’s story is about a boy who has an extraordinary gift and passion to play the violin and gets the chance to play in front of his entire school. This book is targeted towards your 8-12 year olds, but everyone can enjoy my first published work. Violen is beautifully illustrated by Albert Montes and gets the credit for this photo. Read more about Violen on my Projects page. If you like the story, please comment in the Blurb Store as well.


a Picture of Perseverance


Here’s what the Thesaurus lists as synonyms of perseverance:




staying power,
















informal stick-to-it-iveness;

formal pertinacity.

This day, over 15 years ago, my son ran this race as was in last place. He was in last place, yet he just kept running as if he were striving for first. He finished and gained the respect and applause of the crowd watching the race. 1 Corinthians 9:24 says to run to win. This day he did.

My first thoughts on Oogl

Here’s my first try with Oogl camera app from Hipstamatic. I haven’t used it enough to write a review at this moment. Still, I have a few quick thoughts. The app does not allow me to import shots from the native camera or any other camera apps, including the Hipstamatic camera. Not sure if this is a Boo! or a Yay! or a Boo! that turns into a Yay! At least this should filter out all the spamming-bacon-loving-coffee-enthusiasts who have plagued Instagram. It also narrows the field of users to iPhone-using mobile photographers. The Oogl experience looks and feels consistent with Hiptamatic’s Snap Magazine and the Make Beautiful pages on Hipstamatic’s website. The app includes a paid service. The one I’m looking at is 99¢ per month. I am definitely interested enough to pay the 99¢ and keep exploring Oogle for the next few weeks.


Revisting Caine’s Arcade

I never physically visited Caine’s arcade. I drove by months ago, but it was during business hours, so I assumed he was at school. I saw the video again today at the Chick-Fil-A Leadercast and saw the interview with Caine. A lot has happened in a year, and this video has turned into a movement.  I love it when a young person has the gumption to follow through on his imagination and when adults believe enough to help make dreams happen. Caine’s story is inspiring and Nirvan Mullick’s film of it is brilliant. It’s a reminder to me to live with vision and have fun along the journey.

Caine’s Arcade from Nirvan Mullick on Vimeo.

The Teenage CEO

Leanna Archer started her company at 9 years old and became the youngest person to ring the NASDAQ Stock Market Opening Bell. At 17, Lauren grosses over $100,000 per year, and her humanitarian efforts include creating a foundation to help underprivileged children in Haiti. When young people are given the chance, they can rock this world!

K! Magazine Feature



I was featured by K! Magazine, and publication for those who minister to kids. My first feature in a print magazine, which I also shared here on Backspaces

This shot was set up by a 3-year old boy. I was patrolling the hallway and strolled into the vicinity of this restroom in our children’s ministry (I work as a children’s pastor) when a couple of Early Childhood leaders asked for my assistance. All I needed to hear from one of them was, “You need to see this,” which alerted me to break out the iPhone out of my pocket. I came upon the scene inside the boys restroom and was excited to capture what had happened. So here’s the (enhanced with drama) story… Little Joel (3 years old) had been in the zone playing hoops in the classroom until he had the sudden revelation that had to go… badly. He did the pee-pee dance to prove his sincerity and urgency. The teacher was so convinced that she personally escorted him to the restroom with his basketball in hand. However, Joel had nowhere to place his orange sphere that made him so happy just minutes ago. But inside this tiled, dimly lit, and cold place called the boys restroom, there happened to be the perfect place to hold his prized object. Swish! Score!

I get a kick out of being featured for mobile photography. It truly is a passion that I “stumbled” into and am excited that viewers like some of the images that I share. Thanks again to K! Magazine for the feature on their Instagram page (A physical-paper page!) This is a great resource for anyone involved in children’s ministry, which you can check out at